How To Make Her Chase You: 19 Methods That Do The Trick

You have to make them feel like you are the best option, and that is something that will make a woman chase you.
Multiple girls looking at a guy

Most guys have a fear of rejection, so having women chase you instead would be great, right?!

Unfortunately, it’s not in women to be the chaser, but that doesn’t mean they won’t chase you.

You have to make them feel like you are the best option, and that is something that will make a woman chase you.

This doesn’t take having the most money, being the best looking, or being the most popular.

You just have to make her feel like she needs to pursue you, which can be done in a number of ways.

How to get a woman to chase you

If you follow these straightforward tips, you will have girls chase you in no time:

A stylish woman getting close to the guy she is chasing

1. Make her feel good about themselves

We all have our challenges, and attractive women are no different.

So making her feel good about herself is the first step in making women chase you.

If she is working on something important, make sure you are supportive.

If she is feeling down, make her laugh.

Make her feel like she is the best version of herself when she is around you, and she will be drawn to you.

You don’t want to do this too much as it will be repetitive, and she will lose interest.

Make her feel good, and the second date will seem like a no-brainer to her.

2. Let your absence be felt

Your absence will attract women more than your presence.

She will take you for granted if you are constantly around, but if you make yourself scarce, she will start to wonder where you are and what you are up to.

This is human nature, and it’s something that will make her chase you.

She will want to know more about you and what you do with all your time.

So make sure you have your own life outside of her with your own social circle and that you are unavailable at times.

Make sure she knows you are busy, and she is the one who has to make an effort to see you.

This will make her value your time more and make her chase you.

woman talking to her crush on the phone

3. Check-in when it matters

Absence is good, but you want to pop in, especially when there is excitement and good vibes flowing.

You want to make sure she knows you are thinking about her during the good times, so she knows you will be there during the tough times.

A simple text or call at the right moment will make a woman feel special and make her chase you.

This is one of those moments you want to be the “nice guy.”

This sets up the perfect moment for you to make her feel good about herself.

Since it is a moment where she is already feeling happy, she will be more likely to feel good feelings toward you.

woman talking to the guy she is chasing on the stairs in park

4. Stay present when you are with her

There are so many distractions nowadays.

Our phone notifications are always going off, we have social media, and we are always thinking about the next thing.

This makes it hard to be present, but you need to be if you want her to chase you.

When you are with her, make sure she has your undivided attention.

Listen to what she is saying, be genuinely interested and make sure she feels heard.

5. Be emotional mature

Girls chase guys who are high-value, which means they have their stuff together.

This doesn’t mean you have to have your life completely figured out, but you should at least be emotionally mature.

You need to be able to handle your own emotions and not take everything to heart.

If the waiter messes up the order or service is terrible, handle it with class.

If you make a mistake, own up to it and apologize.

Women like men who can handle their emotions and not be a hothead.

Confident men don’t need to get emotional to make a point; they just make the point.

If you can be confident and handle your emotions, she is more likely to start chasing you.

woman dancing with her crush smiling

6. Go with the flow

If you try too hard, you will come across as desperate and weak.

You need to hold your frame at all times. Remember, you want to make her chase you.

Giving off desperate vibes does the opposite and doesn’t position you as the confident man you are.

You need to go with the flow and not take things too seriously.

If you decide to text her good night and she doesn’t respond, it’s all good.

After the second text gets ignored, it’s time to move on.

There is a huge difference between being late to respond because you’re busy and not responding at all.

7. Invest in yourself

The best investment you can make is in yourself.

While developing new skills, improving your style, growing your finances, and working on your physical appearance will make you a more attractive man to women.

The more attractive you are, the easier it will be to make women chase you.

When you make an effort to better yourself, it shows, and women take notice.

You want to develop a lifestyle for yourself first and foremost, but one that beautiful women want to be a part of.

If you have been putting off going to the gym or taking that trip, it is finally time to make it a priority.

Your goal should be to make yourself the best version of yourself, so you can attract high-quality women into your life.

Woman smiling at the man she is chasing

8. Use your body language to keep her guessing

Most of our communication is nonverbal so make sure you are using your body language to your advantage.

Eye contact is key when it comes to attraction, so make sure you hold eye contact when talking to her and looking into her eyes.

Touch her in a non-threatening way by placing your hand on her arm or giving her a light hug.

Use your body language to show her you are interested but never confirm it verbally.

This will leave her interested but unsure of your intentions, making her chase you to find the answer.

woman toching the guy she is chasing on the sholder

9. Keep the mystery

One of the reasons James Bond was so successful with women is because they could never quite figure him out.

You want to be a man of mystery and never let her know everything about you.

The more mystery surrounding you, the more women will want to solve it and make them chase you in the process.

Leave them with questions like, is he into me, what is he thinking, and what does he want?

This will make your dating life more interesting for sure rather than telling everything on the first date.

Woman jealous of a guy talking to another girl

10. Let her see that you have options

If there is a situation where your crush can see other women chasing after you, then take advantage of it.

This is a great way to make her chase you by showing her that you have other options.

It will also make you appear more attractive because women want a guy that other women want.

If she knows other women are after you, she will make more of an effort to win your attention.

The best way to get multiple women to chase you is by letting it be known, in a subtle way, that you have multiple women chasing you!

girl chasing her crush over text

11. Don’t text back to quickly

Girls texting you first is always a good sign, but you don’t want to respond to their messages immediately.

This gives off the opposite signs of the steps mentioned earlier.

Texting is a tactical game since you can’t read body language, hear the tone in her voice, or see her facial expressions.

When you are first getting to know a girl over text, make her wait.

The timing doesn’t matter as long as you are sporadic in your response times.

To be clear, this is the first message you want her to wait for. Then follow through with the conversation.

Disappearing between every message could be a major turn-off and will not help you build rapport.

12. Tell her no

Many women, especially the beautiful ones, are not used to hearing the word no.

When you make yourself less available and harder to get, you become more attractive.

This is because women want what they can’t have, and playing hard to get you to make them chase you even more.

Women have been using this tactic for generations.

Be sure there is a legit-sounding reason. You want her to know you are interested, but you have some big boy moves to make.

An excellent way to do this is by building the sexual tension and then taking it away.

“I’d love to see that smile again, but I have a business dinner I can’t miss.”

“I bet you look great in that dress, but I have to work late tonight.”

“I was just about to call you, but I got pulled into this project.”

These are all examples of how you can make her chase you by saying no.

The more you make her chase you, the more she will want you.

Guy hanging out with multiple women

13. Win over people close to her

Let’s say you get the opportunity to meet her friends because you bumped into them at the mall.

Your mission is not her. It’s to make a good impression and spend time with her friends.

This is because they have influence over her, and if they like you, she will be more likely to like you too.

Make sure you are funny, charming, and friendly with everyone you meet.

You want them to see what an awesome guy you are so that they can tell her how great you are.

This is a foolproof way to make her chase you by using the people around her to your advantage.

Girl flirting with the guy she is chasing at the marina

14. Put her in the friend zone

A beautiful woman is not used to being put in the friend zone.

This is because most guys will do anything to sleep with her.

This typically works better, accompanied by other stops like letting her see other women chase you.

When you make the decision to put her in the friend zone, it confuses her and makes her want to know why not her.

Then she may feel the need to validate herself to you by proving that she is good enough for you.

She’ll start to make more of an effort and try to be sexier, funnier, and cooler around you.

The friend zone is a great way to make her chase you and another one of those things women have been doing for ages because it works.

Guy at carnival making a woman laugh

15. Make her laugh

One of the top ways to make a girl chase you is to make her laugh.

People go through a lot daily, and being around someone who can make them laugh is refreshing.

It’s a known fact that women are attracted to men that make them laugh.

If you can make her laugh, she will be more likely to want to be around you and even chase you.

Don’t take yourself too seriously, have a good time, and make her laugh. It’ll make her want you even more.

Utilize this if you are funny because too many bad jokes will start to appear like you are trying too hard.

girl flirting with a guy in store

16. Push and pull

This technique is excellent for keeping girls on their toes.

Push and pull is all about giving and taking.

An example of this could be, “I like how adorable you are, but maybe you are a little too adorable.”

Playful banter is a good way to keep things exciting and mix up the interaction.

You want to make sure you don’t overdo it. This is a higher-level tactic and is likely best used once you see the chasing has already begun.

women chasing her crush

17. Don’t admit you like her too soon

At this point, you have built significant momentum by using a few tips mentioned that make sense for the girl.

You will need to use different techniques for other girls because they all respond to things differently.

One of the most important things you can do is make sure not to show all your cards too soon.

You want to make sure you keep some things to yourself, so she is always wondering what else there is to know about you.

If she knows everything about you from the get-go, she will likely get bored and stop chasing you.

You want her to make the first move. This will let you know she is genuinely interested, and now the ball is in your court.

Girl chasing a guy at a party

18. Don’t start chasing her

The only person who should be doing the majority of the chasing is her. So you want to make sure you make her work for it.

There is a difference between pursuing and chasing women.

She may have started chasing you, but if the tables turn too soon and you are the one doing all the work, it likely won’t end well.

Stay firm and make sure she is continuing to put in the work to win you over.

The moment she stops, and you keep going, is when you turn into all the other guys chasing her.

Remember, girls chase the guy who is different and comes across as the best option.

Make sure you are always giving off that vibe.

19. Don’t focus on just one woman

If you’ve been friend zoned, and it’s been over a decade, and you are still hoping to get her, you have given her all your power.

This is on the flip side of having options because now we are focusing on your mental state.

If you decide to focus on just one woman, you’ll likely start chasing her.

You want to make sure you have other options and are keeping your eye out for other women.

This will make it so that you can move on without much trouble if she starts playing games or isn’t interested anymore.

It’s important to have options and not make the mistake of chasing a woman that isn’t interested in you.

Bonus: Make sure you are the prize

You want to make sure you position yourself as the prize.

What this means is that she should be happy and feel lucky to be with you.

You don’t want to make her feel like she is the prize, and you are chasing her.

This will make it so that she starts to take you for granted and won’t appreciate you as much.

It’s important to make sure you are the prize so she will work hard to keep your attention and interest.


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